A dependable and readily available dessert for struggling Black youth comes in all flavors of Spiritual Fun—whether Descriptions, Demonstrations, or Physical Play (fun without laughing). Each is like family faces—all having a family resemblance–but each customized. Spiritual Fun is non-offensive, non-frightening, spoils nothing better, but upsets problematic Black youth minds out of their emotional chaos. Since such minds have been historically + recently socialized by Supernatural evil cults in directions of Play deprivation, they are likely to resist trying fun things they have never done—deeming them “suspicious” since “nobody” does it. Their always being serious “second nature” has consequences of: (1) scaring potentially helpful people away; (2) contributing to depression; (3) leading to chronic hostility + loss of Traits making one human; (4) fashioning mental disorganization; and (5) stunting ones “Aliveness” and spirits. These shatter ones Private Self “5Ss” of Safety, Security, Self-Confidence, (Personal Power) Strength, and Stability. Nothing will change for them until they willingly put on-hold their well-honed perceptions of life being only about “Bad Stuff”. A fellow struggler into success must explain how the absence of Physical Play is like a thorn stuck in their inflamed mental “Raw Nerve”. Although that thorn is only one of many, by it being a Keystone healer means removing its adverse effects is a way to begin the process of Right Life Living. Simply the switch to Fun Play may ease one into relaxing ones mind so as to decide matters of Significance more effectively and pleasantly than any serious methods. That process concerns the power of Play’s Fun aspects to endow one with the capacity to clarify the obscurities present in ones mind, to simplify the complex, to bring organization to ones thinking, and to focus on the Essences contained in Reality. By Play being a Spiritual Elements attribute of Unconditional Love, Truth, Reality, and the Natural, enables one to enter into ones in-most boundless light of Reality. That light stems from ones in-dwelling Cosmic Mind Intelligence–the formulator of the Universal Eternal “First Wisdom.”
“First Wisdom” is in-folded ultimate Infinity Cosmic Knowledge in each human’s Soul and to delve in this realm is to experience ones own true nature. As a result, one undergoes inner growth– all at once–from inside-out—done at the expense of all External World involvements geared to fashion problems. Ones inner light spurs one to live life in the flow of progessing to a greater, broader, fuller, and thriving destination. In the process, one is driven to take and use Fun Play wherever one is and wherever one can find it. For example, a “Fun Package” is already within the mental turmoil one has. If that mental turmoil is likened to a “Disaster Star,” then its Rays mess up every part of ones life. Rather than lamenting about how bad “everything” is, use each bad thing as an opportunity to create Fun. Each Ray is a Disposition and possesses: (1) an Inclination–a ‘mental/physical’ "leaning toward" or “leaning” away from something; (2) a Temperament–—i.e. a mindset about a Thing or subject or individual/group with a prevailing emotional trend; (3) an Intention–the decision of what one means to do with an aim toward a specific action or a specific goal; and (4) an Attitude–C17 word (disposition, posture) implying a mental position with an earnest state of mind to reach the goal. Within each Ray are things like mistakes, flaws, imperfections, what is upside-down, inside-out, and going in the wrong direction. One sifts through each of ones problems to find these things so as to mentally play with them as is. They are already in elusive, unexpected, irregular, incongruous, bizarre, and fantasy ways.
Each is an opportunity to do what it takes to laugh at oneself for seeing that thing for just what it is and doing just what it does—and without judging it. Although one will not be supported for the fun of doing it, the very act of doing it is a Fun Challenge. The same applies to generating a Fun challenge by seeing if one can do things within ones capabilities that people said one could not do. Or, self-challenge ones capabilities to go past ones own self-placed limits. Another Fun Challenge is to do the hard work of heading to ones Human Ideal goals but creating this Serious Business into Fun-Play. Next, make the Fun-Play a co-partner with ones Serious Business. By continually daily “stretching” oneself beyond ones present reach, create daily “ME/WE” Fun Challenges incorporating fellow strugglers. Here, the Fun is from “Aliveness” bonding. jabaileymd.com; JABLifeSkills; Theievoice.com