The single greatest self-gift any human can have is Self-Love. It is being firm in not doing any harm to oneself and not allowing any harm that is under ones control. Being in a “Non-Self ME” state, Self-Love does the same for the “WE”. Self-Love, with all the faculties for expressing Selfhood Greatness, is present in every human’s birth into the Earth World. These serve as the Static Background within ones Selfhood, acting as a Standard, Filter, Guide, Measure, and Estimate for all of ones Dynamic Foreground activities in the External World and within ones private daily living. Self-Love has nothing to do with “me, me, me”–or with more than “Enough” External World “Stuff”—or with thinking oneself is better than anyone else. Instead, Self-Love sees oneself in relation to oneself as one sees each of ones sisters and/or brothers—i.e. as each being great in her/his own and being Unconditionally Loved but for unique and customized reasons. Every human’s Self-Love and Selfhood Greatness are from having been: (1) instilled with a Spark of the Flame of the Cosmic Force to create ones Soul Sunshine. This was done when each was a “human-to-be,” residing primordially (before formed with Matter) in the Cosmos’ Subjective Realm and before being conceived by ones parents. In that situation, each “human-to-be” was Spiritually connected to all Cosmic Force Creatures and Creations to thereby design a forever “ME/WE”—always remaining connected to, and orchestrated by, the Cosmic Force; (2) possessing Ancient Africans Genetics—i.e. Humankind’s super-brilliant fashioners of Right Life Living; and (3) Imparted with a special Talent which no human has ever had—nor has now—nor will ever have. That Talent is pregnant with ones Mission in Life.
Ones inner Reality of Self-Love equates to ones outer world expression of ones Selfhood Greatness. Both consist of: Aliveness; Appreciation; Beauty; Compassion; Courage; Creativity, Curiosity; Dignity; Freedom; Gentleness; Goodness; Happiness; Honorableness, Humor; Human Perfection; Play; Personal Power; Well-Being. To cultivate and continually pursue achievements of each of these Real Self ingredient is Selfhood Greatness!!! To put this into context, allow me to use the Lake Concept metaphor to illustrate what is/is not being in charge and control of ones life. Control is shown by ones birth gift “Self” or Divine Consciousness always being like the deep part of a lake, serving as ones Selfhood Static Background. Although the lake’s superficial upper half—equating to ones Dynamic Foreground–is easily disturbed by the trials and tribulations (troubles and difficulties) of life living, its deep part remains still in a state of Calmness, Contentment, and Fulfillment, even if facing death. The Self never really comes into the superficial part of the lake, called the Earth World but rather projects itself into the mind, as the light of a movie projector onto the screen (Amen, Metu Neter VII: 45). Ones out of control life—a False Self—means one has ‘Clouded Out’ ones Soul Sunshine and operates only in the superficial lake realms. This comes about since one now allows hurt emotions to shut down ones Selfhood Greatness acts because of no longer feeling strong. One has gotten into the Crowd’s superficial flow and/or has been socialized to be superficial by Supernatural Believers’ total Scam/Sham dictates. Regardless of cause, one is now in a “me, me, me” mindset and looking in vain to find ones in-most Reality by searching in External World “Stuff.” One has “sold ones Soul Sunshine” so as to follow incompetent people, hoping to “Belong” and get relief by being “Excited.” To follow a False Self’s ego guarantees one will have a needlessly painful and troublesome life.
Correction can be immediate by one simply making a Self-Declaration (“I will do this, come hell or high-water”) to remove the “Cloud” covering ones Soul Sunshine. That converts one from a “me, me, me” mindset back to ones original “ME/WE” way of living. It is the “WE” that helps give support to ones Soul Sunshine attributes. Together, they regenerate and nourish ones “5Ss” of a Private Selfhood sense of Safety, Security, Self-Confidence, Strength, and Stability. Two diagnostic clues of having returned to ones Real Self is one has Courage to be totally self-reliant and live life “my own way” + really, really liking oneself and enjoy being quiet with oneself so as ‘re-coup’ and make new discoveries. Hence, one always looks within to make all final decisions as to what to do, how to do it, and when. These imply ones Self-Love is fully operational. jabaileymd.com; JABLifeSkills; Theievoice.com