Being completely cared for is natural for babies. But, incompetence begins upon them refusing to care for aspects of themselves as able. Incompetence is established when “Don’t Care” is about anybody but themselves; doing nothing for others; and depending on others to take care of them, without Thanks. Still, because of gross Incompetence in handling significant aspects of their Private Self’s Static Background, they are like a noisy empty wagon going over a cliff. That sense of inadequacy causes profound self-turmoil from having to “give up” in all significant life struggles. So, they “sell their Souls” to those who will “mother” them + make a lifestyle out of “Escaping” from, or Ignoring, whatever does not make them feel good + what is deemed too self-disturbing. By me being born during the Great Depression meant knowing intimately about Self-Sacrifice, Hard Work, and precision in making/managing of ‘tiny’ money. Spotlighting cherished family/community ties were all brilliantly demonstated to me by my Mother. Such altered (1950s) with Dr. Spock, “the nation’s pediatrician,” advising parents to let children be "emotionally free". Black Parents could not spank their children. The 1960s were about White youth questioning the Materialism of their parents and their need to radically experiment, as with the Sexual Revolution. The “Me” Generation’s narcissism characterized the 1970s. Then, in the 1980s the Millennial’s “Generation Me” engaged in unapologetic Hedonism, in settings of Disco Music, self-gratification, and Self-Absorption with ‘me, me, me’ Selfishness.
Although in 20,000 BC, African Ifa devised a Binary Number system whose symbols subsequently became the basis of the machine language of today's complex computers, computers began to appear (1950s) in the USA; Emails in 1965. Each exploded in usage in the 1990s. Thereafter, computer addictions, associated with its evil subliminal messages in Flashing Light Gadgets, Trinkets, and Trivia totally captivated the World Crowd. These were evolving offspring of the “Me” Generation’s narcissism. And the Millennial’s “Generation Me” enlarged upon them to an ever-expanding infinite magnitude. The result has caused Weak people to keep their noses stuck in these gadgets; show their aggressions and bad manners to the world from the privacy of their bedrooms; and connect with like-minded bitter people, particularly Supernatural cults dedicated to spreading Indifference, Hate, Evil, and Sadism. Addicts ever hope to get a bit of bad emotional relief by projecting their self-hate onto Scapegoats. This is so wide-spread because of the Supernatural philosophy going back to their ancient warrior origins of choosing peaceful scapegoats so as to ensure their motto:“Winning isn’t everything; it’s the only thing” and giving them power to control everything and everybody. This setting was crystalized prior by the ancient Greek Heraclitus saying: Conflict, not harmony, was the true and proper state for the maintenance of the good—“strife is justice—and war is the father of all” (Asante, Egyptian Philosophies p41). He taught skilled usage of political cunning, intrigue, and dishonorable acts–themes of all Supernatural cults up to today. Because “every incompetent” appears to have the same “me, me, me” orientation, those unable to think for themselves step into this flow as a lifestyle. Yet, their lives remain miserable.
Since true scholarly intelligent people are shut out of their lives—and cults lack intelligence–and since they have expertise in Technology, Trinkets, and Trivia, they self-declare to be Intelligent. But “deep down” they are certain they are not intelligent. To keep others from realizing this, they falsely act like they know “everything” about “anything”—even about other people of whom they have no awareness. As a show of their “Fantasy Intelligence,” they charge high amounts of money for whatever is their employment task. Yet, they know almost nothing about that task. So, to hide from customers their total incompetence and dumbness, they are rude; use “code” language (e.g. in-house abbreviations) as if the customers ought to know that; do not adequately handle what they are paid to do; and have no sense of pride in anything. As Self-Un-Known from being Disconnected from their Spiritual Powers + not being in any part of Humanity—they go nowhere—lack a sense of achievement–and are eagerly “waiting to die.” To talk badly about their “scapegoats” helps them feel less bad about their own terrible mindsets. Yet, they actually are what they project! One ought to study these so as to be able to recognize what to give up and replace with Human Ideals. jabaileymd.com; JABLifeSkills; Theievoice.com